I forget things easily

By Indradhanush Gupta Comment

Those who know me personally are aware that I have a hard time remembering things. This includes things I’ve worked on and things I am supposed to do. Up until now I have been saying this to myself and anyone who’s noticed:

I am not forgetting things. I let my brain clear out anything irrelevant. Also what’s the point of remembering something when I could always look it up?

While I do allow myself to forget the unnecessary details of my day to day life, I now realize that I forget the important things as well which I shouldn’t be missing out on easily.

To give you a sense of what I mean, here are some points that I can recall (no pun intended):

  • I forget things I’ve worked on in the last week
  • I gave a talk at PyCon on working with datetime objects and made the same mistake myself that I had spoken about, only to be reminded about the talk by my colleague.
  • I forget that I worked on a specific component and others tell me you worked on it.

Overall, the theme is that these are relevant details which I should not be forgetting. A few times I’ve even incorrectly challenged others that they are wrong.

So why now?

You may be thinking as to why am I concerned about this now. Here’s a bit of a backstory (it can get a little technical):

Earlier today, I was updating my Emacs configuration which uses emacs-modular-configuration. This is a package that merges all the individual .el files into a single config.el file, which Emacs can then use to load on startup.

As a result, while you are editing your configuration it is easy to mistakenly edit the config.el instead of your raw .el files, and each time you use emacs-modular-configuration to generate the config file, your changes will get overwritten, because you never made the change in the raw .el file.

While using it for the first time last year, I found this to be an issue and I sent a PR that forces the config.el to be opened in read-only mode. This would prevent me from making accidental writes to config.el.

While I was tweaking my Emacs configuration, I accidentally opened the config.el file itself, wondered why it wouldn’t let me write to it, overrode the read-only mode, made edits and ran the command to regenerate the file. I kept wondering on how my changes were getting undone. It took me a few iterations to realize my mistake. Ideally, I shouldn’t have made this mistake at all, when it was me who had enforced this change in the first place.

So I clearly have a problem here that needs to be fixed but am not sure how to. Accepting it openly is hopefully the first step towards this. Thus this blog post.

How am I fixing this?


At work I have used Trello and applied a mixed approach of the popular Kanban technique with moderate success. I have 3 lists namely:

  1. Up Next
  2. Currently Working On
  3. Done and Dusted

Each Trello card moves from Up Next -> Currently Working On -> Done and Dusted.

The variation here is that I have added more lists like:

  1. Infra
  2. Product
  3. Operations
  4. Ad-hoc

And each list is topic specific. Whenever something new comes up that needs to be taken care of, it goes to the corresponding list. And when the time is right, it moves to the Up Next list and is thereby part of the pipeline. This has helped me in the following ways:

  • I am able to offload things I need to work on from my memory to Trello.
  • When I start my work day, I have a good mental model of things I am working on and it helps me to plan my day accordingly.
  • When its time for the weekly engineering meeting, I do not have to scratch my head anymore when it is my turn to say what I worked on in the previous week.
  • I add the smallest of tasks on the board. So even if I forget, the board doesn’t.

Naturally now that I have a board, there is a tendency for things to get piled up and get ignored for a while. My personal benchmark to deal with this is that I do not let any list become longer than the visible desktop area. If the list is touching close to the bottom edge of the display it is an indicator that the section needs my attention soon. The only exception to this rule is the Done and Dusted list (the longer the better in this case).

However, this has not been perfect. Things like Github issues and pull requests get created and assigned on Github itself. For me to be able to track them, I have to add them manually on my board as well. This gets a bit tedious at times, especially when I’m really loaded with things on my plate.

Occasionally I forget to move the cards around, in effect making the board not very reliable until I get it upto speed once again.

This approach has worked amazingly well for planning and keeping a track of ongoing things. But I’ve still not been able to solve the problem of being able to remember things from the past very well.


It was easier to manage my work life with the help of Trello because the requirements here were very specific and restricted when compared to my personal needs. To be fair, I did try to use Trello for this as well but it has not worked out very well, for the following reasons:

  1. It is much harder to map my personal life’s TODO’s on a board. Both over generalization and compartmentalization will kill this approach.
  2. At work I have access to my laptop all the time and it is very easy to note down things as they come. This does not stand true for my personal life as a result I fail to note important things down on the trello board when I do not have access to my laptop.

That’s all folks!

This has been my only problem which I have been unable to tackle very well in the recent past and I fear is becoming my Achilles Heel. I am exploring more ideas and approaches to solve this problem and hopefully will be able to post an update in the future.

If you’ve made it this far, please consider leaving a comment with your thoughts or suggestions on what could I do differently.

I could do with some help here. Hello, World!

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